Wednesday, 19 August 2015

When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable

Hi guys, you might want to look up this LINK before reading the writ below.
This is more like a rejoinder

Okay, so here goes.....

Monday, 10 August 2015

Seeing Beyond Political Views

The views portended herein aren't meant to be foisted down anyone's throat as I'm a firm believer in the parlance; "to each, his own path".

Saturday, 11 July 2015

How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner.

I've nursed the idea of this topic for a while and had started writing on it, before a mail from Esther Perel, landed in my mail box, I was surprised and actually felt like she stole my idea *grins* but then I remembered, she's a superior, a mentor of sorts whom I have never communicated with on a tête-à-tête basis.
It was the content of her mail that gave me the final motivation to put down something on this topic. A majority of this intellectual property belongs to her. 

Monday, 29 June 2015

Living And Suffering Are Directly Proportional --->> Opinion

That theater of dreams, of hopes, of lives to be lived, of expectations, of successes, of failures.
We sometimes struggle with who we are, heck, more oft than not, we are clueless who we are or who we wanna be.

We'd rather not go through the painful process of getting to realize who and what we are meant for.
I quite share the sentiments of those who tow this path. Why bother? Why allow oneself go through the fire? Why go through times of harrowing depression and different forms of identity crises, all in a bid to find self?
Why do all these, when there are already made personalities and identities in the world that we can easily garb on?

Before I go on, I want to apologize to my dear and esteeemed readers and visitors for not updating.
I have had a number of issues to deal with, but I'm back and better for it.
So, as I was saying...

Friday, 24 April 2015

I'd Rather My State Of Being Remains Joyful Than Happy

JoY is a state of Being

Happiness is a state of emotions.
Yes! There's a difference between joy and happiness. Let's prod further, shall we?

Enough is Enough!

Can the issue of tribal glorification be put to FINAL rest now?
Must we pay our "perceived opponents" back in their own coin?
Does that make us any better?
Can the enlightened and sane among us foster the spirit of one accord despite our geographical differences?
How long do we intend to keep defending and offending ourselves while trying to correct an adjudged wrong?

Thursday, 26 March 2015

Sometimes, I Think Marriage Is So Overrated

I penned this before my blogging days. Folks kept liking and sharing it, so I had to re-read. I am re-inspired. Hope you'll be too.

My hands feel somewhat weighty now that I've decided to put my thoughts to screen.

More oft we ladies (and guys) too only prepare and look forward to our wedding ceremonies.
Except those who are lucky to go through series of marriage counselling, one is never quite sure what to expect in that new phase of life called MARRIAGE and consequently, MOTHERHOOD.